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Align to your full potential   Among healers the sharing of energy is referred to as cording. Cords energetically connect two individuals together.  Just as babies are born with a cord attaching them to their mothers, this is natural. But there comes a time for a mother to cut the Apron Strings allowing her child to go out into the world on its own. This is appropriate. If the mother fails to break the cord, the child will eventually attempt to do it. This too is appropriate. As you journey through your life you are not meant to be experiencing other people’s energy or journey good or bad.  You are only meant to experience your own.    Challenging and unhealthy relationships   Sometimes you could find yourself in challenging and unhealthy relationships.  In such relationships you could cling to one another allowing cord attachments to occur between you.   Seldom is the sharing done equally. Actually if the energy sharing was done equally it would be silly to have the cord in place at all. It is possible to be in a relationship without cording one another, in fact it is preferable. Couples that share one life source ordinarily create a relationship in which one individual becomes weaker, the other stronger. The weakened person feels collapsed because he/she is giving away their life source unconsciously. The stronger person feels great for a time, but his/her appetite may very well increase, craving more and more of the shared energy.

Relationship break-ups   When a relationship ends it can be painful.  Unfortunately, often times when people "breakup" they don't realize is that they may still have cords attached. The intact cord keeps an open channel for continuous feeding on each others emotions, experiences and anxieties, long after the relationship has ended.   Often preventing BOTH parties from moving forward. Dissolving Cords   I do not “cut” cords, because in my experience this can leave a “fragment” of the original cord behind.  To ensure a clean break all cords should be dissolved.     If you feel you have an energy cord or attachment resulting from a previously challenging or unhealthy relationship which you would like dissolved, call me today on +44 (0) 7540 584 920 to make an appointment or send me an email to clayton@claytonainger.com